{"id":32414,"date":"2019-04-22T15:43:07","date_gmt":"2019-04-22T15:43:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thirrjaislame.com\/?p=32414"},"modified":"2020-04-20T10:49:09","modified_gmt":"2020-04-20T10:49:09","slug":"nxenesi-optimal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thirrjaislame.com\/nxenesi-optimal\/","title":{"rendered":"Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi optimal"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Sjellja e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

E gjitha ajo q\u00eb kemi folur m\u00eb\nlart p\u00ebr sjelljen e m\u00ebsuesit duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb njejt\u00ebn gj\u00eb t\u00eb posdon ehe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi. Prej\nsjelljeve t\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb largohet nga shkaqet q\u00eb e angazhojn\u00eb nga\nm\u00ebsimi, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 di\u00e7kaje q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb me nevoj t\u00eb patjet\u00ebrsueshme, gjithashtu duhet\nq\u00eb t\u00eb pastron zemren e tij nga veset e k\u00ebqija q\u00eb mund t\u00eb pranon Kur\u2019anin dhe t\u00eb\nm\u00ebson p\u00ebrmend\u00ebsh at\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb rezultat, transmetohet se i d\u00ebrguari\ni Allahut ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cN\u00eb trup \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb muskul q\u00eb n\u00ebse ai p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet,\np\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet i gjith\u00eb trupi, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00ebse ai prishet, prishet i t\u00ebr\u00eb trupi, e ai\nmuskul \u00ebsht\u00eb zemra\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb e urt\u00eb q\u00eb thot\u00eb \u2013 p\u00ebrgatite zemr\u00ebn p\u00ebr dituri sikur e p\u00ebrgatit tok\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbjellur. Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb modest dhe i sjellsh\u00ebm ndaj m\u00ebsuesit t\u00eb vet edhe n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i rij se ai n\u00eb vite ose me m\u00eb oak autoritet apo devotshm\u00ebri. Gjithashtu duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhet modest ndaj dituris\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ta posedon at\u00eb sepse nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb e urt\u00eb thot\u00eb \u2013 \u201cDituria \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb p\u00ebr mendjemadhin, sikur q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb uji t\u00eb rjedh drejt vendeve t\u00eb larta\u201d. Duhet q\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi ti bindet m\u00ebsuesit t\u00eb tij dhe t\u00eb konsultohet me t\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e veta, t\u00eb pranon fjal\u00ebt e tij sikur q\u00eb pranon fjal\u00ebn nj\u00eb i s\u00ebmur\u00eb nga ndonj\u00eb mjek i sinqert\u00eb.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vler\u00ebsimi i dituris\u00eb:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n


Nga sjelljet e mira q\u00eb duhet patur parasysh \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb mos t\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00e7mohet dituria, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb tek njeriu q\u00eb posedon dituri dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb prej tij edhe n\u00ebse nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi posedon ndonj\u00eb post udh\u00ebheq\u00ebsie ose ndokush tjet\u00ebr pos tij. Dituria duhet mbrojtur nga n\u00ebn\u00e7mimi n\u00eb t\u00eb njejt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb si kan\u00eb mbrojtur t\u00eb par\u00ebt ton\u00eb, Allahu qoft\u00eb i k\u00ebnaqur me ta, tregimet e t\u00eb cil\u00ebve jan\u00eb t\u00eb shumta p\u00ebr nga ky aspekt. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sjellja e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit me shok\u00ebt e tij<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n


Duhet qe t\u00eb sillet mir\u00eb me shok\u00ebt e tij dhe ata q\u00eb prezentojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebsimet e hoxh\u00ebs, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb prej sjelljes me hoxh\u00ebn dhe me vendin e m\u00ebsimit, ulet para hoxh\u00ebs si\u00e7 ulen nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit, e jo sikur m\u00ebsuesi, nuk e ngrit z\u00ebrin e tij tep\u00ebr pa nevoj\u00eb, nuk qeshet, nuk flet pa nevoj\u00eb, nuk luan me duart e tij, nuk kthehet djathtas apo majtas pa nevoj\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb i kthyer kah hoxha duke i nd\u00ebgjuar fjal\u00ebt e tij. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

M\u00ebsuesi kompetent dhe respekti i nx\u00ebnesit p\u00ebr t\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nuk duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb jep m\u00ebsim vet\u00ebm\nai q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kompetent, \u00ebsht\u00eb fetar, \u00ebsht\u00eb i njohur, t\u00eb dihet se \u00ebsht\u00eb i\nmborjtur prej m\u00ebkat\u00ebve, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Muhamed ibn Sirini r.a. dhe Malik ibn Enesi\ndhe t\u00eb tjer\u00eb nga t\u00eb par\u00ebt se dituria \u00ebsht\u00eb fe, dhe kujdesuni prej ku e merni\nfen\u00eb tuaj. Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi duhet t\u00eb shiqon m\u00ebsuesein e tij me respekt, t\u00eb jet\u00eb i bindur\nse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb kompetent dhe i p\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm, sepse vet\u00ebm k\u00ebshtu mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrfiton\nnga m\u00ebsuesi i tij. Shembulli m\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebt tan\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebt p\u00ebr\nm\u00ebsuesit e tyre jepnin l\u00ebmosh\u00eb dhe thonin \u2013 \u201cO Zot mbuloja t\u00eb metat m\u00ebsuesit\ntim dhe mos e largo mir\u00ebsin\u00eb e tij prej meje\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Rabiu, nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi i imam\nShafiut r.a. \u2013 \u201cNuk mund t\u00eb pija uj\u00eb derisa m\u00eb shikonte Imami, si rezultat i\nprestixhit t\u00eb tij\u201d. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Transmetohet nga prij\u00ebsi i besimtar\u00ebve Aliu r.a. se ka th\u00ebn\u00eb \u2013 \u201cNga e drejta e dijetarit \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb kur t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebndesish njer\u00ebzit at\u00eb ta ve\u00e7osh, t\u00eb ulesh para tij, mos t\u00eb b\u00ebjsh me shenj\u00eb para tij, t\u00eb mos debatosh me t\u00eb, apo t\u00eb citosh ndonj\u00eb fjal\u00eb t\u00eb dikujt tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb prani t\u00eb tij, t\u00eb mos p\u00ebrgojosh ndok\u00ebnd n\u00eb prani t\u00eb tij, largimi nga t\u00eb folurit fshehurazi, t\u00eb mos e kap\u00ebsh p\u00ebr rroba, t\u00eb mos e teprosh me k\u00ebrkesa, dhe n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb i lodhur mos e shoq\u00ebro!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

P\u00ebrktheu nga gjuha arabe :<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mr. Ibrahim Sherifi<\/p>\n\n\n\n

www.thirrjaislame.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sjellja e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit E gjitha ajo q\u00eb kemi folur m\u00eb lart p\u00ebr sjelljen e m\u00ebsuesit duhet q\u00eb t\u00eb njejt\u00ebn gj\u00eb t\u00eb posdon ehe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsi. 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