Islami \u00ebsht\u00eb fe e cila me rregullin e saj ka p\u00ebrmbledhur gjitha \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e jet\u00ebs duke mbrojtur me k\u00ebt\u00eb rregull bashkimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb individ\u00ebve t\u00eb saj dhe nj\u00ebashtu p\u00ebrforcimin e lidhjes nd\u00ebrmjet tyre.<\/p>\n
Ka vendosur ligje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje q\u00eb ta forcon lidhjen me dashuri, q\u00eb ka urdh\u00ebruar p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhe ka nxitur n\u00eb t\u00eb (n\u00eb dashuri). N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb ka t\u00ebrhequr v\u00ebrejtjen nga \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb shpie n\u00eb p\u00ebr\u00e7arje dhe shp\u00ebrndarje, gj\u00eb q\u00eb mbjell\u00eb urrejtjen dhe largimin.<\/p>\n
Disa nga rregullat q\u00eb ka vendosur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje jane:<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrfillja e etik\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme dhe mos largimi nga ajo, e mb\u00ebshtetur nga hadithi i Pejgamberit sal-lAllahu alejhi ve sel-lem p\u00ebr etik\u00ebn e t\u00eb fokurit ne prezenc\u00eb te tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Transmetohet nga Abdullah ibn Mes’udi r.a. se ka then\u00eb: ka th\u00ebn\u00eb i d\u00ebrguari:<\/p>\n
“Nese jeni tre persona mos flisni dy persona fshehurazi nga i treti derisa te p\u00ebrziheni me njer\u00ebzit, p\u00ebr arsye q\u00eb mos t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet ai”.<\/p>\n
Dobite e hadithit:<\/p>\n
1) Nuk lejohet q\u00eb nj\u00eb grup t\u00eb flasin nd\u00ebrmjet veti dhe ta l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00ebrin anash duke mos e ky\u00e7ur n\u00eb bised\u00eb perve\u00e7 me leje prej tij q\u00eb t\u00eb flasin nd\u00ebrmjet veti p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb p\u00ebr ta, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb transmetuar n\u00eb librin e Muslimit se ka th\u00ebn\u00eb i d\u00ebrguari: “Mos t\u00eb flasin dy veta fshehur nga i treti p\u00ebrve\u00e7 me leje”.<\/p>\n
Dhe nuk ka dallim n\u00ebse ata q\u00eb flasin jan\u00eb dy apo me tep\u00ebr p\u00ebrderisa prej atij q\u00eb fshihet biseda \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb person.<\/p>\n
2) N\u00ebse jan\u00eb nj\u00eb grup m\u00eb shum\u00eb se tre persona dhe flasin fshehurazi nd\u00ebrsa tjer\u00ebt jan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb person, at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk ka ndales\u00eb edhe pse me etik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb marrin pjes\u00eb n\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb grupi p\u00ebrve\u00e7 n\u00eb rast nevoje.<\/p>\n
3) N\u00ebse flasin dy persona e m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00ebrin ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb jasht\u00eb bised\u00ebs nuk lejohet q\u00eb k\u00ebta ta nd\u00ebgjojn\u00eb bised\u00ebn e tyre sepse gjithashtu edhe ky gjest nxit urrejtje dhe armiq\u00ebsi q\u00eb i p\u00ebrngjason spiunumit t\u00eb ndaluar.<\/p>\n
Gjithashtu n\u00ebse nj\u00eb person hyn n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend nuk i lejohet q\u00eb t\u00eb ulet af\u00ebr dy personave dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjon se qka flasin fshehurazi, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 n\u00ebse ka argument se kjo gj\u00eb nuk ju pengon atyre dhe i japin leje.<\/p>\n
4) Ndalohen biseda t\u00eb fshehura pa dallim se a b\u00ebhen n\u00eb vendndeje, n\u00eb udh\u00ebtim apo diku tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n
5) N\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb biseda e fsheht\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet dy personave ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb, q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj me ndonj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb ndaluar fetarisht, ajo nuk lejohet edhe n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb me lejen e nj\u00eb personit ose pa lejen e tij, gjithashtu n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb i l\u00ebr\u00eb anash apo jo, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb All-llahu i lart\u00ebsuar:<\/p>\n
“O ju t\u00eb cil\u00ebt keni besuar, kur t\u00eb flitni fshehtas, mos flitni di\u00e7 t\u00eb ndaluar apo p\u00ebr armiq\u00ebsi apo p\u00ebr mosd\u00ebgjueshm\u00ebri ndaj t\u00eb d\u00ebrguarit, po flitni fshehtas per mir\u00ebsi dhe devotshm\u00ebri”.(el muxhadele:9)<\/p>\n
6) N\u00ebse nj\u00eb njeri \u00ebsht\u00eb me fam\u00eb dhe post q\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb marrin pjes\u00eb n\u00eb bised\u00ebn e tij, por mund t\u00eb m\u00ebrziten dhe t\u00eb ofendohen n\u00ebse flet me ndonj\u00ebrin fshehurazi, i ndalohet atij q\u00eb t\u00eb bisedon me ndonj\u00ebrin prej tyre fshehurazi edhe n\u00ebse jan\u00eb tjer\u00ebt m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb person.<\/p>\n
7) Islami \u00ebsht\u00eb fe e p\u00ebrsosur dhe ligj gjithp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebs q\u00eb regullon jet\u00ebn, ka parasysh ndjenjat e njeriut, i nderon ndjenjat e individit edhe grupeve.<\/p>\n
8) Duhet q\u00eb muslimani t\u00eb zbukurohet me etik\u00ebn islame sepse ajo e zmadhon dashurin\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet njer\u00ebzve.<\/p>\n
9) Duhet q\u00eb muslimani t\u00eb ket\u00eb kujdes n\u00eb sjelljet e tij n\u00eb publik duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb vendndejet dhe kuvendet e sidomos kuvendet e gjykat\u00ebsve sepse n\u00eb t\u00eb ka rregullim t\u00eb etik\u00ebs se individit dhe p\u00ebrforcim t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n
10) Duhet q\u00eb muslimani t\u00eb ket\u00eb etik\u00eb q\u00eb e forcon n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb nd\u00ebrmjet t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve dhe t\u00eb largohet nga \u00e7do send qe e shkakton urrejtjen dhe largimin nd\u00ebrmjet tyre.<\/p>\n
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